The other day I was getting late for college,(usually I m always late) so was running down the stairs to the metro station..and almost tipped..and then heard a stranger behind me – “easy girl” I looked back and he smiled and said- “careful, you will fall” I smiled back for the concern before I started my marathon again
No I didn’t fall in love with the person on first sight… :P
The point I have to make here is- that sometimes even a stranger cares for you, without a reason, without a thought..which we then call “being human”. But then why is it- that when you care about the people you know or are somehow associated with- why at that point your concern and care is taken for something more- Why does the other person starts thinking that you are in love with him , heads over heels for him or just want something in return for the concern you have for him.
Well with all the logic that I could put into this, I could only derive upon this-that it just seems ironic how can anyone care for us without a reason or rhyme., unconditionally that it..its hard to believe how can an acquaintance be concerned for us without any ulterior motive to the root of it
My concern for a classmate got him thinking that I was in love with him and is available for him. This is one of the instance among many other.
In another of its kind, a teacher whom i almost thought of as a mentor,consulted him with career related issues i had, ended up trying to somehow initiate sexual talk to see how receptive i was. I was in for a shock ( no i am not exaggerating)
Phewww, some people are better left to their troubles and their lonesome lives because if you help them they think – they have a chance with you
If u think I m Mother Teresa, no I am not, I don’t go around making everyone happy but yes I somehow spontaneously end up being concerned for the people I know, I believe everyone does. But for me it has been dangerously firing back.
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